Old sexual ghosts and the new double standard -- Ways of all flesh: four sexual types -- Myth of the virgin couple: desexualizing mothers and fathers -- Daddy's girl: the romance between fathers and daughters -- Oedipus hex: the guilt trip of mothers and sons -- Spitting image: sexual issues between fathers and sons, mothers and daughters -- Sibling rivalry, and love -- Coming of age in the family: parents face teenage sexuality -- Falling in love again -- Sex education for parents.